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Paul: How do you get over shyness?


When I was young, I am very shy when I speak to who is not very familiar with, especially girls. In college, I love a girl, she sit behind me, but I am shy to speak to her, what was even worse, I have not told her, what a pity! But now, I am never shy. How do I get over shyness? Very simple, after college, I am brave enough to communicate with strangers.Because this is my job. I am a businessman. Then, I often do sport.It makes me dynamic and self-confidence. If you feel confident, you can overcome shyness. You can!

The way to get over shyness

How do you get over shyness? Almost everyone will be shy.
 Following is the way to get over shyness: 1.Evaluate yourself, build your confidence.In the daily study and life, should give more consideration to what I want to do; Behave yourself simply in a variety of social occasions, do not worry about whether others will pay attention to you. When you talk with other, you should look at him and focus on his eyes, so you can improve your attention to others.
 2. communicat with others bravely . say hello to whom does not speak much but meet regularly ,like the postman, salespersons, and so on. to be good at making you relax when you talk with others, especially communicate with strangers. Speak it with some calm, relaxed statement.self suggestion, and can often play a role in easing tension and the psychological burden.
 3.Pay attention to the conversation skills: During the conversation, when you feel the blush, do not try to conceal it in some action, It will make you feel the blush deeper, and further increase your shyness. Shyness is not failure, this is only due to mental stress, is not unable to cope with social activities.
4. learn to get over nervousness: everything will be better. Usually pay attention to develop own good feelings and emotions, I believe most people based on trust and sincere attitude towards themselves. People can change many things on his own character through strength of will to overcome such as indecisive, nervous, timid, and other adverse psychological. To develop their own abilities in different aspects. To be confident, to get over shyness. Do you know how to get over shyness?